Chris’s journey with Share the Care began with an act of kindness—and grew into a lifelong commitment to support families of children with additional needs. As a childminder and parent herself, Chris was first introduced to fostering when a health visitor asked if she could help a family struggling to find care for their autistic son. Chris has been providing emergency care and long-term support for families in South Gloucestershire ever since.
How it all began
“My journey with Share the Care began many years ago when my own children were young. I was childminding at the time, and a health visitor asked if I’d consider looking after a little boy whose mum was struggling to find care due to his autism. I didn’t know much about autism then, but I agreed—with mum’s guidance—and we built a lovely bond.”
From emergency carer to lifelong support
“One summer, she was let down by her Share the Care carer and couldn’t go on a planned holiday with her older son. I asked how I could help, and soon I was registered as an emergency carer. That week turned into years of support, and I’ve never looked back.”
Supporting families through short breaks
“Share the Care offers short breaks for families of children with additional needs. It’s flexible—tailored to what you can offer. I’ve usually done one weekend a month, sometimes for two different children. It gives me time to support others while still having space for myself.
“Over the years, I’ve cared for around seven or eight children, often for many years at a time. Most have had autism, but I’ve also supported children with cerebral palsy, foetal alcohol syndrome, and complex needs like chromosome deletions. One young lady I now support is non-verbal, doubly incontinent, and uses a wheelchair.”
Learning and growing along the way
“My training has evolved over time. Initially, I learned through experience and conversations with parents. Later, I pursued formal education—a childcare course, then a degree in early years care and education. Today, I work part-time assessing children with autism, and my Share the Care experience deeply informs my professional understanding.”
A family effort
“It’s had a big impact on my family too. My husband is involved with care and my children grew up alongside the young people we supported. We used the money to do something special each time—cinema trips, bowling, parks—so they always looked forward to those weekends. One of my daughters even became a learning disability nurse and is now a registered Share the Care carer herself.”
Why we do it
“The best part? Knowing we’re making a difference. These families face immense challenges, and giving them a break—just a weekend to breathe—means the world. We learn so much from the young people too. Each one teaches us something new.
“I’d absolutely recommend Share the Care. It’s not for everyone, but if you’re the right person, it’s incredibly rewarding. People often ask why we give up our spare time to do this. For us, it’s just part of life—and a part we wouldn’t change.”
Could you Share the Care?
If you’re interested in becoming a Short Break Carer, fill in our enquiry form or call 01454 866423 and a member of our team will be in touch for an informal chat. You can also come along to one of our fostering information events.
