Alison, who has been fostering since 2010, explains why she was inspired to become a foster carer.
“When I first considered becoming a foster carer I had no children of my own. I had recently just come out of a long-term relationship. Therefore, I decided I would do what I really wanted, no hold backs from considering another person.”
“I wanted to give myself to a child, let a child see there was another way to be a family. To have the opportunity to see a child flourish and enjoy the simple things. Activities like reading together, swimming, and taking the dog for a walk. I wanted to show them how to care and enjoy fun things. I also wanted to help a child to achieve at school and reach those goals. This would help them feel confident and thrive.
My inspiration
“My inspiration to foster was that I wanted to give a bit of me to them, to feel I was doing good. I wanted to show them and explain that life is different for everyone. Also, you can set yourself small, large, any goals to make your life the way you would like it to be. Besides that, I also wanted to show them that life can be nice.
“I’ve tried it. It’s hard work. Every child is different and you have to find out what works and what doesn’t for each individual child. Fostering and the team around the child has given me such invaluable experience. This has helped me raise my own birth children alongside children in care.
“Everyone is special, everyone needs someone to help, whether in care or not. To have the chance to explain and show a child how to act or ideas to help them think their feelings through is incredibly positive. When the smallest thing shows you’ve made a positive impact, it is very rewarding.
“As with all families, there are highs and lows. It’s certainly a tough job but hey kids keep you young of mind, even if the grey hairs still creep up on you!”
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